“The proper placement of, proper English words, in a proper sentence that “means nothing!!!” …It’s just noise! …. It’s just “static”!!! … It’s just “oral static”!!
How often have you engaged in an exchange of “oral static”? Neither party is interested in finding out what the other party meant when they said “………..”
Neither party is trained, or educated, or motivated to try to first find out what the other party means. But as night follows day, each party will have an answer or an opinion of what “each thought the other meant!!!” If that isn’t an exchange of “oral static” I don’t know what is!! What’s the use? What is gained? There is no “mutual understanding”! It’s just noise!!
Yet people get angry. People get disgusted, frustrated, loud, etc. over something that neither party has tried to understand. …..They just stay there and yell at each other! … Leave in a huff! … All because people haven’t thought about the possibility of “first” trying to understand!
Talk about “conflict resolution”!!! How is that possible without “first” realizing that an effort must “first” be made to establish a “mutual definition” of what you’re talking about. Chances are that in a “mutual” pursuit of “mutual understanding” there will be little or no conflict.
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