“To Know” is to “Understand”.
What further do you have to investigate? Isn’t the purpose of your “communication” to be understood? Why did you communicate in the first place?
How do you know if the other party “knows” what you mean; other than by his reaction?
Is it “too late”?
“To Know” is to “Understand”.
How do you really understand “ahead of time”?
Is it in your previous relationship? If so; what does it tell you?
Well then, what is the harm?
It is “harmful” only if your previous relationship is one in which you have relied on too heavily and the result of “failure to understand” bears too “heavy a burden” on the actual results (based on the actual facts, as known by a few)
So, what is one to do?
One can incorporate such detail, in the initial communication, that a normal person could react in a normal way. Don’t leave it to chance! Fill it with too much detail! The fault remains yours in any case!
Most cases of “misunderstanding” are yours! REGARDLESS!
Please add to your initial communication any details that might subtract from a “misunderstanding”!
YOU are the cause!
You simply are the "the cause”.
Saturday, November 6, 2010
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